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This year I learned that I’m fat. Same thing I learned last year and the year before and the year before and ect. ect. The only difference is that this year I said, “Yes, and?” Same thing I did last year and the year before and… oh wait.
Seriously though this year I learned that my “yes, and” sass inspires people, and I think that’s pretty neat, because honestly, telling me I’m fat just means that you’re only capable of pointing out the obvious and not capable of even attempting to be the kind of human being who can actually talk to people and appreciate who they are instead of zeroing in on the size of their stomachs. You’re not capable of understanding that someone’s waist size is not a hindrance to their character. And frankly, if you’re put off by someone you don’t even know because they’re bigger than you then you’re the one with problem. Same thing goes for everything that makes us different, because its those differences that make this world an interesting place to live in.
Diversity is beautiful. Don’t hate on people who are able to smile and love themselves, because in this judgmental world, smiles are the bright spot that we need. If you have nothing better to do than to tarnish someone’s smile, then that’s the true definition of the word “sad.”
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I honestly think that joining Tumblr was one of the BEST decisions I’ve EVER made. When I first joined in like…. March or May, I was depressed to the point that everyday was a challenge and i just hoped to be dead. I was following all these depression blogs and it was just a major battle to be happy. But then one of the many depression blogs I was following reblogged something from a user joshpeck. I was laughing so hard and i decided to follow him. Before i knew it, I was following more funny blogs and had some happy to go along with my sad. So, here I am… Happy and sad, but not loving my body enough. So one day, I got on this shitty website again and searched in #Fatspiration and found SOOO many wonderful people to follow.I found people like: ashleighthelion, curvesandconfidence, brattyfatty, brichibi, pardonmewhileipanic, plus-size-barbiee, fatthefuckup, fatassbigknits, archedeyebrow, curvyvirgo, curvygirlonabudget, nataliemeansnice, gingerdrone, pudgebug, meganatee, fatshiononthecheap marshmallowfluffwoman, walkingwithmoonwolves, fatgirldangerous vintagecitylady, and mydas. Thanks to those AMAZING people, I love myself more than ever. They aren’t afraid to show off their body. I love their “fuck it” attitude. It took a long time to get to the point where I could love myself as much as they do. I want to thank every single last one of you beauties for helping me love myself. For helping me find me and come out of my little insecure shell I was hiding in. I thought I’d never get out that thing. So I guess in a way…. it wasn’t really when I joined the website. It was more of the people I followed. I love you guys and thank you so much for being such amazing people.. I’ve never known many girls like us to be so confident and not give a fuck about what the media has to say, or other people for that matter. I wish you all the best in 2015, and many blessings. Thank you again for being AMAZING!!!
Xoxo, Jazzy
Thank you so much for the love! *giant hugs*
Also, reblogging because there are a lot of great blogs to follow that are mentioned if you need a place that is plus sized supportive :)
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shout out to the girls that hate their bodies but are trying really really hard to find the beauty and comfort in them because that shit is hard and takes a lot of time and is emotionally exhausting. i’m proud of y’all.
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