People are ALWAYS jealous and ALWAYS looking for ways to make themselves feel better because honestly, the world is scared to be brave and positive. It's easier to be a total piece of shit than an actual caring human being who doesn't give two fucks about what someone looks like. It's easier to be heartless and to also be a coward who hides behind anon to spread hate. It's easier to be a piece of shit, honestly. YOU are happy doing what you do. YOU are a human being. YOU are wonderful.
Anonymous
The whole concept of hate blogs has always boggled my mind. I don't see how these members' contributions are doing anyone any good. I can only imagine they're either bored or have a desire to feel superior. There's always the possibility of them lacking humanity due to some misfortune in their lives, but it's hard to pity those who get off on hurting others like yesterday's high. I suppose we'll never really know. At least you're not taking this to heart. You're such an admiration, Bri.
I’ll never get hate blogs or hate in general, really. I can’t imagine my life being at a point where I feel good tearing someone else down, let alone someone I don’t even know. Like what goes through someone’s head when they see someone’s picture online? ”Who is this person? They’re fat! I should let them know in the most insulting way I can come up with which is actually terribly cliche.”
I think the reason why I always post this stuff and share my responses and feelings to it is because there are way too many people who won’t put themselves out there because of these people. There are so many people who want to cosplay and just won’t because they’re worried about this random person attacking them, so I figure, “Hey look, this person over here? Called me a cow. Know what I did? Kept cosplaying. Got some books published. Went to a bunch of conventions to get my books out there. Had a blast.” Because I know what it feels like to get that hate and then sit in your room and wonder if they’re right about you, and no lie those comments do hurt, no one wants to get hate on. But I don’t know these people, I don’t know why they have issue with me, why they can’t just hit the next button if they don’t like what they see. And I realized that, damn Bri, these are the SAME kinds of comments you got growing up. It’s the same shit! It’s ALWAYS the same shit! They have nothing to say about my cosplay, but my weight, or the color of my skin, THAT they can preach on for days. It doesn’t matter how the costume looks, they just want to poke fun at a fat girl.
And I realized… wow… that’s pretty sad.
And I realized that this happens to EVERYONE. It’s not just fat that gets bashed, everything, EVERYTHING does. I’ve seen amazing cosplayers get cut down because they’re black. I’ve seen thin cosplayers get cut down because “you’re just doing it for attention.” We all have insecurities and we all deal with people who are just so ugly on the inside that they feel the need to shoot you a message in an attempt to make you feel like shit. I mean hell, that Reddit post with me and the other Wonder Woman? Someone called her anorexic because she’s thin! It’s just not worth stressing over, at least not to the point of stopping what you’re doing. If you feel bad for hate, that’s fine, just don’t let it KEEP you down. Keep doing what you do, keep having fun with it, keep enjoying it, you’re opinion of yourself is what matters most :)
Here, have an anon fighting sword.
Anonymous
But the soul still burns~
Sorry… got a bit Soul Calibur on ya… seriously though one of those swords would do nicely ^__^
You are beautiful and an inspiration. *pats*
Anonymous
It's sad how some people don't have anything better to do with their life then sitting on the computer and making fun of others and then they act like it's honorable to be a judgmental fuck. It's just to feed their own egos anyway. I'm always happy when I see you post because you do what you love in life and it shows. You're confident and positive and you manage to give that out to others aswell!
Anonymous
You have to stay positive. I mean I’m not gonna lie logging into Tumblr and seeing hate isn’t exactly how I wanted to spend my Thursday, but it’s not going to ruin my Thursday, especially since these comments are just so predictable. I think these people don’t realize how much I’ve heard this crap before, only back when it did start and did make me feel ugly, it was like, 1990? To see the same words reused in 2014 it’s like, “… really? We’re still doing this?” I’m in my thirties now, I’m done sitting in my room being sad and wondering if I should stop doing the things I love because someone I don’t even know needs to make fun of someone to get through the day.
i'm sorry if this isn't welcome, but i love seeing you come across my dash. your posts are always so beautiful and thought out. i haven't followed you long, but everytime i see your icon, i have to smile. i hope the rest of october goes a lot better :(
That is completely welcome!
Also this is actually how my last October started and it turned out great in the end :) Seriously, two years in a row. I want this on a calendar.
YOU HAVE BEEN VISITED BY THE HAPPY ANON! I AM HERE TO SPREAD HAPPINESS AND JOY WHEREVER I GO! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, SWEET, TALENTED AND KIND! HAVE SOME VIRTUAL FLOWERS! *prances away*
Anonymous
I really love how the nice anons come out when the negative anons pay a visit :) *hugs*
Is it just me or do fat shamers have no lifes whatsoever? I mean they accuse fat people of not doing anything but all they do is dedicate their life to trying to make people miserable and failing. I just don't get it.
THIS!
I mean I’m apparently lazy and sit around all day, yet on the flip side aren’t they sitting around and making fun of people they don’t even know? Not to mention doing it on anon which requires no effort, because you don’t even have to bother logging into the site, just… remind me who’s lazy again?
Man that anon is a piece of shit with a hideous personality. Fuck fat hate, I know you're proud of your body and of who you are so don't let insecure people pull you down.
Though anon is switching from food to animals, and tied it into food because grazing on salad, so that was kinda creative? I’ve never been compared to an animal who eats a lot except for the times when I’ve been compared to an animal who eats a lot, so… nevermind.
Soon they’ll be out of ideas, all that’s left is laziness and comparing me to a fat celebrity, then all the ideas are gone, though technically they’re gone anyway because I’ve heard it all before, they’re just being recycled, Captain Planet would be proud.
I figured it out. There are 4 insults:
1. Large animals
2. Laziness
3. Food
4. Fat Celebrity
I suppose there’s always dying, but that usually goes back into the food insult.
I also needed to send a little love your way to counter-balance all the stupid haters. You have some pretty amazing cosplay and are all around just awesome. I'm torn on which one I love more, so I'm just gonna say I love them all! As for all the haters, hiding behind their keyboards, well your nastyness says more about you than this lovely lady, so you can suck it, yo!
Anonymous
Hey everyone, not all anons are bad <3 *hugs kind anon*
