AnonymousThat’s what I thought. I knew I had seen it before, I just couldn’t remember. Thanks anon!
AnonymousI’ve actually never heard that before. The only time someone ever told me I needed dick was when I was coming out, because, “how would you know you’ve never slept with a man.” And just, why doesn’t anyone ever say, “How would you know you’ve never slept with a woman.”
But anyhow.
I don’t think anyone actually “needs” penis. They might “want” it though. Which, honestly, I always think of sexuality as being fluid and preferences can change. Like I love my wifey to pieces, she knows this, but I also find men attractive still. Not enough to like, be like, “OMG LET’S HAVE A THREESOME RIGHT NOW,” or anything like that, but the attraction is there. And she gets it, and sometimes, there’s a man who she will show me a picture of and we’ll both be like, “Dayum.” Now there’s other lesbians I know who are just absolutely, 100%, not attracted to men at all in no way whatsoever. Like they think they’re fine people, they don’t hate them (because I feel the need to say that because some folks still think that lesbian = hating men), they’re just not attracted to them. Which is fine.
At its core though I find myself disliking that statement because I hate when people link sex to someone’s emotional state, like, “You’re such a bitch you’d calm down if you got some,” I just hate that like I’m not pissed off because I need to have sex I’ve been with the same woman for 12 years I have an active sex life my attitude is not from lack of sex. And no my emotional state is certainly not over not getting some from a man. I feel like that’s how that statement is used the most, like, penis = the calming agent a woman needs, no matter what her sexual preference is. No, my calming agent would be if you stopped being an asshole.
Interesting question, anon :)
wheneveryveinisredoutoftheblue:
a-spider-is-just-a-land-octopus:
Sheesh
The last one..
This is fucking sick.
if you still think rape is funny here let me just slit your throat open for you
oh my god
The bolded
the last one made me cry.
fucking disgusting
schools should start teaching people that rape is wrong instead of useless things like finding the area of a kite. this post is disgusting. it’s disgusting people like rapists who make me hate the human race. people should say how bad all this is instead of covering it up or saying the people are lying.
^^^^
That last one :( It speaks to me because I remember in high school guys telling me all sorts of stuff in regards to sex because they wanted to sleep with the virgin of the group. I figured out that they could care less about me (because when I said no they immediately stopped talking to me). But there are a few times that are clear to me.
1. I was hanging out with some boys playing video games and one of them made a comment like, “Ha ha ha what if we just raped you right now?” Ha ha ha right so funny ha ha I immediately told them to leave. My dad was there (not in the room with us but in his room) so yeah, they even had the nerve to say something like that (and slide in closer to me like they were actually going to try) while my dad was in the house. Then I would get the, "you’re just a tease" or “you led me on,” and you know what, asshole? Being invited to a girl’s house is not an invitation. The invitation is when I say “yes we can have sex,” not, “do you want to come over and play Star Fox with me?"
2. "Maybe I’m just too big for you.” There was one time in my life where I came close to having sex with a guy. I felt him going in, and it hurt, really bad, so I told him to stop. He told me to just relax, it always hurts at first, and I actually let him try again. But, again, it hurt so I told him to stop completely. Another thing he said was that it was “only in a little bit” and to let him keep going. Fortunately, he did, but looking back that really could’ve become like that last sign :(
3. "Your friend does it.“ Yes I had a friend who was pretty sexually active, even before high school. She was my best friend, and the guys she was with had friends who immediately assumed that I would do it, too. And while I did know that, so what if my friend does it I don’t want to, hearing it so many times when you’re so young makes you question yourself and sometimes you think, ”… yeah it’s true she is doing it and she seems to like it…“ but no, don’t fall for that shit just don’t.
The Naoto hat is back. This time with a handmade belt since they stopped selling the pattern I was using.
I currently have 4 left. You can purchase them here:
http://www.etsy.com/listing/152418918/naoto-hat-from-persona-4
Uh oh, the hat is back for sale and it’s new and improved <3
I really like scary movies but on the other hand I really don’t like scary movies
This is me. In college, my friend introduced me to Fatal Frame 2. We played it at my house at night while my dad was at work. She left and I was home alone. I actually slept with our Boxer in the room with me, like normally he’d sleep out in the hallway but I was like, “Nope come in this room with me and I’m closing the door so you can’t leave me nope nope nope stay.”
Finished a couple Christmas accessories for her Tiana dress which she’ll be wearing at Daisho Con
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAH! I’m so happy with this! Holiday cosplay for Tiana is go <3
Puppet the Cat thinks she’s being helpful in my editing. She’s not. She’s not really helpful at all.
Yes I’m listening to random Sonic the Hedgehog music DON’T JUDGE ME!
“Maybe he’s right. Maybe I am the cause of this. Maybe you were normal before meeting me.”
When something tragic happens, you want nothing more than to close your eyes and make all of the pain go away. For Gable Peterson it’s a little more complicated than that. When detective Maurice Ashford shows up at his door with news that his boyfriend, Avery Blair, has been found dead, Gable is left devastated. Seeking some sort of comfort, Gable closes his eyes and imagines a world where none of this happened.
Only, when Gable wakes up, he’s surprised to see that Avery is still alive.
My second book is out now! The physical copy should be about a month away, but now you can get the ebook copy <3 Thanks for your support, everyone :) The third book, “Seeking the Storyteller,” will be available soon!
