Oh god.  O.K.  Let me explain you a thing.  I’m still learning about this as I go.  I wasn’t very sexually active in high school and not through a lot of college, since her and I were long distance, so now that we live together I feel like I’m playing catch up sometimes ^^;;;

Anyhow.  There’s the obvious, roleplaying.  We’re both creative people, so it happens.  This applies online when we roleplay with our characters, or offline, lol.  We would keep in touch through roleplaying when we were in separate states.  At first we would skip out on our characters having sex, but then we got over it, and then it kinda made it into the bedroom.  

There’s bondage.  Not anything too heavy!  Well, not personally, but I’ve seen some ridiculously gorgeous pictures.  Personally there’s like, just hands bound, and blindfolds.  I like that more than I thought I would?  Also… spanking.  I really wish I could explain why THAT is a thing I like, because I don’t get it.  And oral sex.  It’s kinda funny because back in high school that was like, the gross thing girls would never do to guys, now I’m kinda like, “Eh,” like I’ve seen some great art for it and I personally enjoy it… when it’s done properly (my ex-boyfriend was terrible at it, even if I had barely any experience I know that BITING SOMEONE DOWN THERE IS NOT A THING YOU DO!)  

Part of me is semi curious about what its like to sleep with a guy. I’ve never actually done it.  I’ve used things, lol, but yeah, that’s not the same I know.  I’m not curious enough to seek out the answer, sort to speak, but I’m curious.  I’m also curious about threesomes, again, not enough to seek one out, just curious.  

I’m sure I’m forgetting stuff?  Kissing, kissing is a big thing, and foreplay, but sometimes rough sex is fantastic if you’re in the mood.  This concludes my kinks?  My personal ones, fandom ones on the other hand… that’s completely different.  I feel like with fandom I’m open to anything, except things like… using the gun like a dildo then pulling the trigger, just… no.

OMFG ANON YOU HAVE NO IDEA I ACTUALLY LITERALLY SQUEAK WHEN I SEE PUPPIES!  Like we’ll be driving around and I’ll stop mid-sentence like, “PUPPY!”  And like, it doesn’t matter how big the dog is, it still gets called a puppy.  I LOVE PUPPIES AND SOMEDAY I’LL HAS ONE!

I knew this was coming.  All right I’ll tell two stories, the first experience and then the first one I actually consider as like, you know, going all the way?  It’ll make sense in a moment.

So like, I’ve never actually gone all the way with a guy, but I have friends who did.  When I was 11, my friend and I were at the school across the street with some boys.  She and her boy ended up having sex outside.  His friend tried with me.  We got as far as making out, and when he tried to undo my pants I actually ran home.  I remember being really confused about what was going on, because I hadn’t kissed anyone like that, let alone going any further.  I ran home and brushed my teeth because I felt really gross.  

It actually took me and Snow a while to get to that point.  It took us a while to kiss, then it took us a while to go beyond that.  I remember we messed around a little, and eventually we wanted more because we were long distance, so we’d see each other once, maybe twice, a year.  So finally, one time, she came down with her roommate for a LARP in Des Moines.  She stayed in my room with me and we did it, and we had to stay quiet because I had roommates.  I don’t think this was the time my roomie knocked on my door while we were in the middle of it, or when my other roomie knocked back into the wall while she was with a boy?  LOL oh college.

Anyhow, it was quite nice, but for a while I wasn’t uh… returning the favor, because I had no idea what to do?  Yeah way over that now  ^^  So yep, our first time was in my room in college.  It was ALMOST in her apartment, but we kinda chickened out. 

The first question I got asked on TMI Tuesday is: what body part I find most attractive on my significant other.  

This is kinda tough, because there’s a bunch of stuff I find appealing about her.  I’m gonna pick two.  First, is her mind, because dear fucking god she has a great imagination.  Second I would say her lips.  Sometimes that whole stupid embarrassing butterfly tingling STILL happens when she kisses me, and it’s irritating because she’s getting more bold about it (she like kiss me at a huge Disney photo shoot and OMG JUST OMG!)  But yeah, still, sometimes I’ll have days like, “No don’t kiss me cuz if you do we are NOT getting out of this bed just sayin’.

Lately I’ve been checking out her legs though, because my mom, my MOM pointed out that she looks good in heels, and she’s right.  Like I mean I knew she was right but now I notice more now because my mom was like, "She’s kinda sexy huh?”  And I’m like, “Yeah mom she is,” and my mom is like, “I guess you would say that huh?”  Dur mom, but I still love you anyway.

Oh I guess its TMI Tuesday or something?  I’ve never done it before but sure ask me stuff?

Oh my dear god I finished these before Gee.Kon.  The top picture is the before picture, where I sketch on the shield and swear a lot.  The bottom picture is what it looks like after being woodburned.  I still have to apply the coat of poly to it, but besides that these are DONE!  I hope everyone likes them?

shippingcatfish:

must-be-a-thursday:

First time listening:

Second time listening:

Third time listening:

WAITING FOR THE BUS TOOK A PICTURE OF ANOTHER BUS WAITING FOR THE BUS IN THE RAIN I’VE BEEN WAITING FOR THE BUS AS THE SUN CAME UP BUT THE SUN AIN’T OUT NO MORE CAUSE IT’S GREY WAITING FOR THE BUS THERE’S A GREY ONE BLUE ONE A RED ONE ALL OF THEM TURNED AWAY I’VE BEEN WAITING FOR THE BUS GOTTA CATCH A BUS GOTTA WATCH NEWS GOTTA REGIMENT A PLAN FOR THE DAY

BUS

FRICK YOU THE FRIST TIME I HEARD THIS IS KNEW IT WAS GOLD

I love this goddamn song.

Progress pictures of the armored Princess Tiana cosplay.  The skirt used will be my normal Tiana skirt so it’ll be all green and stuff, and of course my hair and things will be done as well.  We just wanted to try on the armor to see what it looked like  :)  Gonna do another coat of gold to make it look better, I still can’t believe this is just craft foam  O.o

I swear the only time I even think about make up is when I want to cosplay.  Thankfully we have a Halloween store nearby that believes in green lipstick.  Going to be Tiana all weekend for Geek.Kon.  The normal dress will be Friday, then the armored one will be Saturday, and Sunday will be like… plain clothes/maybe a cute dress or something Tiana  ^^  Got green lipstick just cuz I felt like it, I also have green eye shadow and nail polish.  

It’s kinda funny that I only think about this stuff for cosplay.  My mom is like, “OMG YOU KNOW HOW TO USE MAKE UP?!”  And I’m like, “Of course mother, I am a woman… of cosplay.”

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