blaklegsanji:

i swear i hate the bnha fandom. its basically full of little teenagers who think they have a right to tell people where they stand in the fandom. they throw the word abuse around like its the only word in their dictionary. they treat bkdk shippers and any other ship they proclaim is abusive, like their nothing but a disease because they think its okay to hate on them and bully them. they make ship events and keep certain shippers out of it. if people proclaim their love for mistuki or believe endeavor can change, they automatically proclaim those people support their “abusive tendacies”. they trash horikoshi cause they say he’s a terrible writer bc the plotline isn’t going the way they want or that their faves aren’t getting the spotlight. bitches he created this manga you have no say in what gets to happen. hori has probably sacrificed alot to bring the bnha series to us and y'all are trashing him cause things aren’t going y'alls way. talk about being fucking ungrateful. in the end horikoshi gets to decide what happens.

also y'all don’t get to say where people stand in this fandom. this isn’t y'alls little teenage cliques at school. this is a fandom filled with different people of different ages from all over the world. better fucking remember that.

This is why it’s so weird being in a fandom as a soon-to-be 35-year-old.

(commenting on the ship stuff because I’m not caught up on the manga)

So many fandoms are like this. Like I know it feels like its just one in particular but ALL fandoms have that group whose sole purpose is to ruin someone’s day instead of, you know, scrolling past the stuff they don’t like and focusing on the stuff they enjoy. Like all that energy used to tell someone that their ship is trash could be spent on a fic or fanart, you know? 

I have seen some gnarly ship wars, like, some real “wtf is this nonsense” (talk to me about SasuNaru sometime). Like you can not like a ship, that’s perfectly fine, but don’t be in folks’ inboxes telling them that they should die a fiery death or whatever because they like a thing that you don’t. 

And it’s so wild, because I swear the bakudeku folks I follow actually LIKE the other ships, too? Like they aren’t telling kiribaku or tododeku or whatever that they’re gonna burn in hell, they’re out here like, “Yes yes, that’s a fine ship, Bakugou clasped onto Kirishima’s hand, A+, but I just happen to dig him with Deku.” And that’s it. 

tl;dr: no one’s forcing you to like a thing so leave folks alone.