I would totally put my face 4 inches from her chest and scream, “I’M SO HAPPY RIGHT NOW!” And I’d make a point never to take my eyes off her boobs until she got so uncomfortable and creeped out that she decided to leave, go back home, sit on her bed in the dark, and think about how completely stupid she was to write “STILL NOT ASKING FOR IT” while asking for it.
This woman’s a disgrace.
But she’s not asking for it. This is a human body, nothing more, nothing less. It’s not being sexualized, in fact, she’s covered her nipples too. I’m sorry, h-plus, that you feel that your body and the body of other women should be considered a disgrace. Do you feel uncomfortable when looking at pictures in the doctor’s office of a woman’s naked body? And do you, leftybegone, get uncontrollably horny at the same sight? Control your python (or garden snake), man, you’re not 12. Have some maturity over the matter. If you did that to that woman, leftybegone, you’d just be putting a bad face on us guys, making us seem like sex-crazed, immature horndogs. Maybe you are one, but I’m tired people making that assumption of us as a gender. It’s disgraceful. She wouldn’t think it was stupid of her to do that if you did. You’d just make her movement more powerful.
Rape (noun):the crime of forcing another person to submit to sex acts, especially sexual intercourse.
Men aren’t primal fucking animals. They’re humans that are completely capable of resisting their urges. I bet you (leftybegone) are a kid with some serious hormones since you, obviously, can’t control yourself.
“She was asking for it”. Really? Can you really blame an individual for someone else’s lack of control? The mere fact that a woman is more likely to be assaulted if she wears certain types of clothing does not make it right. She could walk around naked and that still doesn’t excuse rape. The solution to the problem is not for women to “dress less slutty” but for men to realize that a woman’s choice of dress is not an open invitation to sexual assault.
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but then again, its kind like putting a meat suit on and telling a shark not to eat you
We (men) are not fucking sharks!
We are not rabid animals living off of pure instinct
We are capapble of rational thinking and understanding.
Just because someone is cooking food doesn’t mean you’re entitled to eat it.
Just because a banker is counting money doesn’t mean you’re being given free money.
Just because a person is naked doesn’t mean you’re entitled to fuck them.
You are not entitled to someone else’s body just because it’s exposed.
What is so fucking difficult about this concept?
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there is some solid gold commentary right here
I’m now engaged to all of you who defended her.
As angry as I get when people blame the victim for “what they’re wearing” and all of that BS, I would think that men would be angrier than me, because such statements assume that they have absolutely no control of themselves. Such statements assume that men are so barbaric, so simpleminded, that they can’t look at a woman who might be wearing a nice dress, or who might be walking alone one night, who might be a bit tipsy, or whatever the situation. They can’t look at the woman without forcing themselves on her. By blaming her because of her appearance it’s like, “Wow… can we not even have eyes and look at the opposite sex without losing control?”
That’s sort of like the assumption that all men are “pigs” or terrible people. It was actually my dad who brought that to my attention. I was taking Women’s Studies in college and he was worried that I would start hating all men – which is the stereotype. I was like, “No, why would I hate men? You raised me, I don’t hate you,” but I realized, that’s what some men think. There’s good men out there who see campaigns like this and see dumbass comments like, “Dur she’s showing her tits clearly she wants it,” or compares it to throwing meat out to a shark. Those good men probably sigh and roll their eyes the same way we as women do when we see such comments. Except in our case, we’re defending the woman in the picture. In the guy’s case, he’s trying to defend himself and break away from that thought process of, “Ugh clearly all men suck because they don’t get it.”
In reality, as illustrated by the above comments, they DO, and it has to suck to always have to defend yourself, like, “Shut up, dumbass, it’s not like throwing meat to a shark, do you really possess so little control?!” It has to suck to see campaigns like this and realize that the gender group you’re in is the reason why such campaigns exist, and comments like the beginning ones are the reason why women are worried about what they wear at certain times of the day, or when they’re walking to their car alone.
The statement “all women want it” is terrible, always has been. At the same time the statement “of course men are going to go after her” is just as hurtful.