35. Favorite type of fruit pie.
Hmmmm are you asking for possible yummy dessert reasons? Hmmmmm? I’d say apple :) There’s also a pie at Baker’s Square that I really, really like, it’s “French Apple Cream Cheese,” sooooo good!
37. Do you believe in ghosts?
Hell. Yes. I believe in ghosts and spirits and all that. Although, I have a sort of sappy reason as to why. When we were dating, there were two dreams we each had about my brother. In my dream, he told me to tell my mom about snowtigra. This was strange because I have NEVER had a dream about my brother, like… ever. In fact that might be the only dream I’ve had. She also had a dream about him, where she was at a pool and there was a little girl in the water. He walked up to her and asked her to take care of the little girl and she said, “Sure.” The little girl was me. And, at the time, she hadn’t seen a picture of my brother at all.
So yeah, I believe.
38. Ever have a deja-vu feeling?
Yep. It’s really annoying >.<
47. What makes a relationship great?
There are a lot of things that make a relationship great, so I’m going to try and list the things that make our relationship great. Keep in mind, too, that not only did we start long distance, we started online, but the reason it worked is because:
1. We have things in common. Not EVERYTHING, but enough things to click with. I mean no, we don’t watch every anime/movie/whatever together, because there are things she likes that I don’t. She loves documentaries and horror. Horror will genuinely scare me if done right, so I tend to avoid it unless with a bunch of people, or at someone else’s house. Also, I definitely play video games more, but she likes them enough. We also have love for art and crafting, and have somehow made this into a business. Same with writing. She’s a great, great muse to have, and we’re both creative people who can come together about characters and plot and stuff.
2. We make time for each other. Even if a couple isn’t into the same thing, it’s possible to find something in common. Like, she’ll watch Master Chef with me. I’ve watched Taboo with her. This is even with her not liking reality TV too much and me not liking documentaries too much. But both shows have at least something interesting for the other person to hold onto. Same with movies and anime and video games. Like Injustice? She likes DC enough to watch me play. RPGs she’ll watch too because they have a story. But me trying to beat the extra levels in Mario? She doesn’t need to be there for that, because she’s kinda, “Meh.” And she knows what genres I like for anime, so she can usually find a series I’d really like. Recent one being Madoka Magica. At the same time, she knows what series she can start without me, ones where I’m like, “Meh,” or ones I’ve tried and was like, “… no that’s o.k.”
3. Being there no matter what. This includes the bad. She has been so understanding about absolutely everything. There have been times where I’ve had no money to contribute anything, but she somehow managed to take care of everything. This happened when I first moved up here, and when I started at GameStop because I worked like no shifts, and when I got fired from GameStop. We’ve got a good system for when the temp job ends for that month and a half, but at first? It was a struggle. But she did overtime and was supportive of me. Now that the writing is coming together, the good tides are coming in, but I’ll never forget how she was there for the bad. And that’s what it’s about. It’s not always going to be happy and fun.
However, when the bad happens, I think it’s important to do something happy and fun. We didn’t have all of the money in the world and I was quite stressed about job stuff and rejection letters and everything, but she’d take me out for ice cream. Ice cream from McDonalds is $1. She’d take me out for ice cream and drive around and we’d talk. It’s about finding the small things that make you happy, and having a person who understands that. She’s been patient during this writing dream, because it is NOT the easiest thing in the world to do despite what people may tell you. And she’d keep me motivated and encourage me, and deal with me being in a shitty mood and kinda snappy. It’s about understanding one another and being there :)