That last one  :(  It speaks to me because I remember in high school guys telling me all sorts of stuff in regards to sex because they wanted to sleep with the virgin of the group.  I figured out that they could care less about me (because when I said no they immediately stopped talking to me).  But there are a few times that are clear to me.

1.  I was hanging out with some boys playing video games and one of them made a comment like, “Ha ha ha what if we just raped you right now?”  Ha ha ha right so funny ha ha I immediately told them to leave.  My dad was there (not in the room with us but in his room) so yeah, they even had the nerve to say something like that (and slide in closer to me like they were actually going to try) while my dad was in the house.  Then I would get the, "you’re just a tease" or “you led me on,” and you know what, asshole?  Being invited to a girl’s house is not an invitation.  The invitation is when I say “yes we can have sex,” not, “do you want to come over and play Star Fox with me?" 

2.  "Maybe I’m just too big for you.”  There was one time in my life where I came close to having sex with a guy.  I felt him going in, and it hurt, really bad, so I told him to stop.  He told me to just relax, it always hurts at first, and I actually let him try again.  But, again, it hurt so I told him to stop completely.  Another thing he said was that it was “only in a little bit” and to let him keep going.  Fortunately, he did, but looking back that really could’ve become like that last sign  :(  

3.  "Your friend does it.“  Yes I had a friend who was pretty sexually active, even before high school.  She was my best friend, and the guys she was with had friends who immediately assumed that I would do it, too.  And while I did know that, so what if my friend does it I don’t want to, hearing it so many times when you’re so young makes you question yourself and sometimes you think, ”… yeah it’s true she is doing it and she seems to like it…“ but no, don’t fall for that shit just don’t.