Thank you so much, anon!  We’re not officially married yet, we’re saving up for a Mortal Kombat themed wedding (not even kidding about the theme).  Even if it just became legal in Minnesota last year it’s like, “Seriously, we’re married, it’s been long enough,” because we have been together for 12 years.  Now we just get to celebrate and make it “official,” at some point.  

I put official in quotes because, to me, it’s been official for years  :)