luvyourselfsomeesteem:

senhoritaugly:

I just had a grown man tell me to “go make me a sandwich” as I was doing his pourover

I told him I didn’t understand what he meant because we’re a coffee shop, and he was like “oh it’s a joke” and I said I “didn’t get it” and he went “it’s funny because you’re a woman working in a kitchen”

And I just stared at him until he got how stupid he sounded

let them feel their ignorance burn into their souls

I actually heard some great advice at a panel at ACEN this year, something about when people say something that’s terrible, respond in this way, in a, “Oh, I don’t get it,” sort of way, you know?  Because then they have to explain what they mean, and the look on their face when they have to explain their sexist/racist/homophobic/whatever “joke” is priceless.