You know what else drives me nuts? (sorry ranting a lot today). 

All right, so you assume that fat people just eat all sorts of unhealthy foods, but we don’t! I love fruit. I love salad. I love vegetables. Love them! And the thing that really drives me insane is that if someone does see me eating these things, “Oh good! You’re trying to lose weight after all!" 

Can’t a big girl just like salad? 

So let’s review.

The assumption is that all I eat are fried foods and cake, to the point that if I even look at a slice of apple pie there’s that judgmental look, even if you have no idea what’s inside my fridge at home, if this pie is even for me, when the last time I had pie was, and you know damn well that I’m not the only person in the universe eating apple pie. 

If I say that I do eat things like fruits and vegetables it’s not because I like them, its because I’m trying to lose weight.

So in other words it doesn’t matter what the hell I eat you already have your insults at the ready. 

Hence why I just stopped caring. No matter what I do haters already have an image of what my fridge looks like. They’ll never get out of my fridge, they’ll just keep it stocked with whipped cream and pudding pops. If they’re so bored that they have to comment on what they assume another person eats, then that’s their problem, not mine, and not my fellow fat men and women. It’s none of their business to begin with, but if they’re lives are so dull that they have nothing better to do than to be like, "Ha ha ha fat people like to eat,” then that’s what’s truly pathetic.

I’ll be busy living life.

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fat haters don’t have much imagination or creativity…are they mad at yours? :3

Fat haters can only come up with a select variety of insults which usually revolve around food, laziness, and large animals.  Therefore, they run out of ammo quickly.  I mean… how often can you tell someone that they eat a lot before it gets old?  The best you can do is change the food you think they eat, really.  Fried chicken gets turned into brownies, or something like that, you know?  Gotta keep those food jokes coming along!  They’re really clever!  

Hater:  Twinkies!  Bet she likes Twinkies!

Me:  Actually I prefer cupcakes you uncultured swine.

It’s the same punchlines from high school, and I graduated high school in 2001, so that’s how old this is.

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In our society today girls feel that they need to be skinny in order to find love.  Fact is, your true love is gonna love you no matter what.  If he cares about the size of your thighs more then the size of your heart…drop him my darlings as no man should make you feel bad about your size if he truly loves you <3

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Naw son. Fuck this entire fucking movie because it’s about these skinny ass women who are bitter as fuck because the fat girl in their group is getting married before them and they mad because “HOW THE FUCK IS THE FATTY BEING HAPPY WHILE WE ARE SKINNY AND ATTRACTIVE NOOO WOE IS MY SKINNY SELF!”

Not to mention the fact that this scene is AFTER THE SKINNY WOMEN ALMOST DESTROYED HER DRESS DUE TO THEIR PETTY ASS BULLSHIT.

AND FUCK THAT ‘I LOVE ICE CREAM’ LINE FOR REAL.

We can’t go 4 damn minutes without a trope about a fat person talking about how they love to eat

This movie was a pile of steaming shit.

^OMG. I WATCHED THIS SHIT IN ACTUAL DISBELIEF. WHAT IN THE FUCK???? DISGUSTING.

So I’m kind of torn on this because I see both sides of what people are saying.

I absolutely get what they are saying about the Hollywood trope of fat girl= I love to eat food that makes me fat. And that is bullshit.

But the fact is, fat people get their diets examined by everyone. Especially fat women. You can eat like the healthiest diet in the world, the second you decide to have a cupcake in public, you’re getting glared at like you eat nothing but. Maybe it’s your once a year cupcake, but folks assume you freebase sugar packets.

So honestly, I myself have said “Fuck them, I like ice cream!” And I don’t apologize for it. In fact when I get that look I make a big deal of loving what I’m eating, savoring it almost orgasmicly. Pisses people off because I’m “supposed” to be ashamed and eating only celery. My skinny friends don’t get that look for their ice cream cone.

As much as clothes can be a political statement for a fat woman, so can not apologizing for what you like to eat.

So I get the objection. I don’t even exactly disagree. But I think it’s not quite that simple.

I can’t comment in the rest of the objection as I haven’t seen the film.

I’ve not seen the movie either, but I agree with the food comments.  Even if you do eat healthy people are like, “Oh hey that’s great you’re trying to lose weight you need to,” and it never occurs to them that… maybe… you actually like fruits and veggies and don’t crave Twinkies and ice cream all the time, that you eat healthy because broccoli is delicious, salad is great, and who doesn’t love peaches, or apples, or bananas, or yogurt, or asparagus.  I don’t eat this stuff because, “Oh god gotta lose weight,” I eat it because I like it.  

So yeah, I get the complaints with the line too, but on the other hand… fuck everyone, I like ice cream, because I shouldn’t feel like I’m breaking a law if I want some Dairy Queen sometimes.  Everyone loves Dairy Queen, there’s plenty of people in line getting ice cream, not just me.  If I want a Blizzard I’ll get a Blizzard, it’s not like all I eat is ice cream.