fedupblackwoman:

Every time I come across the few images of fat black girls in love, it’s a meme mocking them and bashing them. Can black women live for once? I mean seriously.

I guess black love or love period is only beautiful if the couple is “conventional”.

Things I hate:

1. The assumption that someone is doing a fat girl a favor by loving her because, surely, she’s so down on herself that she’s in desperate need of compliments and will cling to a person who dares to say she’s beautiful.

2. The assumption that someone is with a fat girl for some other reason other than love. Clearly, the sex is good, or maybe the food (har har, get it, cuz she’s FAT), or she has a lot of money. It cannot possibly be because, gasp, there’s an actual chemistry between the two.

3. The assumption that a fat girl smile equals glorifying obesity, surely she can’t be smiling because she’s happy with her life as it is. I mean look at that picture. That kiss on the cheek. That content look on his face. Surely she can’t be smiling because of happiness, she’s smiling to spread the fat agenda.

I suppose I will give this meme some credit with its dumb “gotta be her pussy” comment because at least it’s not doing the “fat girls are too fat to have sex/they’ll crush their partners” bullshit.