So October 11th is National Coming Out Day. I had a thought. If you need someone to come out to, anon or not, feel free to send me a message :) Coming out isn’t easy, and I definitely plan on sharing my story on Friday, but I thought I would put this out there now. I have a couple of different coming out stories, from my parents, to my partner’s parents, to friends, and just… yeah, I feel like everyone had a different reaction so it’s kind of a different story each time. Some good. Some not so good. But all important to me in some way.
I would love to see more transgender main characters. There’s a series that’s supposed to come out on the CW with a lead transgender character, which I am cautiously optimistic about (cautious because CW is hit or miss). We actually have a trans character coming up in our book series. We plan on doing a lot of research going in, because we don’t want to misrepresent anyone. We have a good friend who is actually in transition right now (male to female) and she’s been more than willing to talk to us when we reach our character. The last thing I want to do is misrepresent an underrepresented group.
This is a random anime example, but look into Grell from Black Butler. It’s Victorian era, but Grell is canonly a man who wants to be a woman. The creator did interviews with her characters and Grell actually said something along the lines of thinking God made a mistake in making “her” a man, and Grell always refers to herself as a lady. She also wants a family and children. Of course, the 1800s don’t really have the resources for such a thing (I think? I’m fairly certain they don’t, but that doesn’t mean that trans people didn’t exist, or maybe even extreme measures were taken? I think you can pull this off in your book, you just need to do research).
HOMG they’re voting on the Marriage Bill in Minnesota on Thursday guys what if i can actually get my big fat geek wedding after all like YOU DON’T UNDERSTAND I never thought this would be a thing!
